hi...KAMRAN..thanks for writing..i have understood your concerns... premature ejaculation can be because of the anxiety related to failure in bed and partner s satisfaction...so this anxiety needs to be controlled.. there are behavioral techniques and drugs which can treat premature ejaculation... behavioral techniques are: squeeze technique, stop-start method and other interruption methods..you can read this in detail from the internet and practice it..it is the matter of experience you gain from this techniques and timing when you apply it...the effects of these behavioral methods will be seen after few weeks..but the effects are long lasting...consult a psychiatrist and seek professional help..ask about this techniques and follow his advice.. the drugs are antidepressant medications which causes delayed ejaculation as a side effect..which is used to treat premature ejaculation...SSRI antidepressants you have to take daily for long duration for its beneficial effects.. there is a drug [dapoxetine] which shud be taken as and when required basis, for premature ejaculation.. in my opinion, you shud consult a psychiatrist or sexologist and ask for help..he will make treatment strategy and guide you through it... i hope this advice will be helpful to you..best of luck,,...