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I am 30 yr old married 2 years back. We are having intercourse for last 5 months but not even a single time I could be able to ejaculate inside. There is no problem of erection as it happen easily during foreplay but whenever I tried to insert penis inside , I face problem to inset penis (I may have the phobia about the size of vagina ) & in turn erection lost . What should I do for ejaculation inside ? Please note whenever I tried masturbating ejaculation happens in 2-3 mins. Kindly suggest
Mon, 1 Sep 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Nishad BN's Response
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.Your problem of Premature ejaculation and loosing of erection while entering is most likely performance anxiety.You should get rid off performance anxiety and stress. You can try squeeze and stop technique.You can deviate your thought when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation. If all these not helping then approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.SSRIs like Paroxetine as well as clomipramine gives good results in many.Short acting SSRI Dapoxetine can be used in need also.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.
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Suggest Remedy For Premature Ejaculation
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.Your problem of Premature ejaculation and loosing of erection while entering is most likely performance anxiety.You should get rid off performance anxiety and stress. You can try squeeze and stop technique.You can deviate your thought when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation. If all these not helping then approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.SSRIs like Paroxetine as well as clomipramine gives good results in many.Short acting SSRI Dapoxetine can be used in need also.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.