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hello sir, i am 24 years old man and i am commited. my problem is i am not able to control my sperm during sex with my partner. even i dont do intercourse with my partner just only kissing and nipple sucking then also sperms comes very soon and totaly spoiled my mood without doing intercourse so please help me
Wed, 23 Jul 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Nishad BN's Response
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.The first thing you should do is avoid anxiety and stress.Even performance anxiety in sex also can cause premature ejaculation in some.You can try following methods:You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual before getting yourself stimulated.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medications like SSRIs such as Dapoxetine or clomipramine.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.
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Suggest Remedy For Premature Ejaculation
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.The first thing you should do is avoid anxiety and stress.Even performance anxiety in sex also can cause premature ejaculation in some.You can try following methods:You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual before getting yourself stimulated.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medications like SSRIs such as Dapoxetine or clomipramine.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.