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Am 27 male married with one kid my height is 5foot 11 and I weigh 85 pounds am physically fit and do not have any medical history,but I have a problem with ejaculation I last lest than a minute when I penetrate my wife and as a result my marriage is at the edge of breaking please help me.
I can understand your distress regarding ejaculating much earlier than you desire. You seem to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is a condition when a male ejaculates earlier than desired which leads to dissatisfaction in sexual intercourse in either the person or his partner.
It is recommended that you seek a psychiatric consultation for starting treatment. In your case, treatment with both medications and behavior therapy would be recommended.
Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behavior therapy sessions would consist of 1-2/week for 6-8 weeks. It would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction. The outcome will be even more favorable if your wife participates in the behavior therapy sessions.
Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.
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Suggest Remedy For Premature Ejaculation
Hi, I can understand your distress regarding ejaculating much earlier than you desire. You seem to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is a condition when a male ejaculates earlier than desired which leads to dissatisfaction in sexual intercourse in either the person or his partner. It is recommended that you seek a psychiatric consultation for starting treatment. In your case, treatment with both medications and behavior therapy would be recommended. Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behavior therapy sessions would consist of 1-2/week for 6-8 weeks. It would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction. The outcome will be even more favorable if your wife participates in the behavior therapy sessions. Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.