I jst got married. i tried to penetrate her many time but she goes through a lot of pain and we stop there it self. she already has a slight ruprutre after she went to a ginac to get checked for thyroid. this happen whn the ginac inserted a finger into her vigina. she does get fully wet, but whn i try to penetrate it pains her very badly. i even tried using a gel but it still pains her..the size of my penis is more than normal too....what should i do...