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Suggest Remedy For Severe Pain While Having Sex For The First Time

hi, i am a 23 year boy and i recently tried to have intercourse with my girl friend who is 19yrs. We both happend to be virgins. I cud not enter her vagina. I cud insert one finger in to her,but she complained of pain when i tried 2 fingers. My penis was slipping while trying to insert it. So,do we really have a problem,else v need to try better?
Fri, 12 Dec 2014
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Hello sir and welcome.

Your partner is young and above all is a virgin. Penetration the first time can be both difficult and a painful experience for the female partner.

Good lubrication and gradual insertion and/or dilation is pivotal. Make sure you first gradually prepare her vaginal muscles, by inserting 2 fingers until she is comfortable, then three and then go ahead with penile penetration. Give it time and make sure she is well lubricated at all times.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes.
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Suggest Remedy For Severe Pain While Having Sex For The First Time

Hello sir and welcome. Your partner is young and above all is a virgin. Penetration the first time can be both difficult and a painful experience for the female partner. Good lubrication and gradual insertion and/or dilation is pivotal. Make sure you first gradually prepare her vaginal muscles, by inserting 2 fingers until she is comfortable, then three and then go ahead with penile penetration. Give it time and make sure she is well lubricated at all times. Hope this helps. Best wishes.