Dear service user, Thanks for contacting Healthcaremagic. I have gone through your question and understand your concerns. When one s arousal level is very high so he reaches orgasm quickly and emission occurs. However the ejaculatory control can be achieved by behaviour techniques such as stop-start technique . When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them a behavior exercise called start-stop technique. The man starts masturbation and stops just prior to orgasmic inevitability. He allows arousal level to decline and re-stimulates. One should continue this start-stop sequence for about 15 minutes. Later on he may fantasize about partner during the start-stop hence learns to be in the situation when he actually will confront female partner. In this method, man learns to identify or feel the point of ejaculatory inevitability (The point of NO RETURN) and gains voluntary control of ejaculation gradually over a period of time. There are medications like Paroxetine or Depoxetine which helps to delay orgasm. They can be taken in combination with Sildenafil. They should be taken under medical supervision. I hope this will surely help you. Feel free to ask anything again if you have any queries. Warm regards.