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Hi I am a 58 yr old healthy woman. My husband is 64 and on lots of meds. He cannot perform sxe. He says we are too old to want sxe. But I still do. We ve tried everything. Adultery is not an option. He s waited to long to get help. As this has been going on for almost 2 yrs. I feel ashamed and unatrractive. As he states in his own way no one would want a 58 yr old woman.
Many reason affect sexual desire. It might be age, stress and many more.
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that age might be factor for low sex drive. Still you could do something like spend more and more time for sex with your partner.
As you mentioned your husband complained of getting too old so it might be reason behind it but definitely if you spend some more time than it could be possible of regain of sexual desire.
i would like to advice you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Suggest Remedy To Increase Sex Drive
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Many reason affect sexual desire. It might be age, stress and many more. I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that age might be factor for low sex drive. Still you could do something like spend more and more time for sex with your partner. As you mentioned your husband complained of getting too old so it might be reason behind it but definitely if you spend some more time than it could be possible of regain of sexual desire. i would like to advice you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati