Dear service user, Thanks for writing. I can understand your stress. I would be able to answer your question better if you had mentioned your age and duration of above problem. Your recurrent unwanted sexual thoughts are because of anxiety and frustration of conflict with the partner. The more you try to repress these thoughts/ feelings more they will intrude your mind and disturb you. I suggest you to see a psychiatrist for psychological counseling regarding overcoming this stress. Short term use (1 to 2 months) of anti anxiety medicines with relaxation exercise will fix the problem. Relax and go ahead for treatment. Wish you good health.