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Hi I am Sunitha married 3 years before. I am very happy about my married life. As I was studying PG course for last 3 years we did not want to have a kid. We used condom while we had sex. And now we are trying to have kid and the problem starts here. My husband cannot withstand the pain while he inserts his penis inside me. The skin covering hurts him a lot and because of this we are not in a position to have sex comfortably. Everytime we start having sex I will be tensed as I cannot see the pain he has. Give me some suggestion. We want to have sex comfortably.
Since you had comfortable sex with condom in the past, it is not due to any problem with the penis size. Having pain in penis during sex is a very common occurrence and he is not alone and there can be a number of things that cause it. It is possible that your vagina is not well lubricated, and the roughness of rubbing against your vaginal cavity irritates the skin of penis because of friction. It can also be that both of you may be indulging in very vigorous, rough sex; during and at the end of such a session it can be exhausting and he feels pain. There can also be a problem with the foreskin not retracting, it is suggested that he uses adequate amounts of lubrication and slowly retracts the foreskin during an erection if that is a problem. He should not use too much force and if it is still not happening then consult the urologist.
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Hi, Thanks for writing in. Since you had comfortable sex with condom in the past, it is not due to any problem with the penis size. Having pain in penis during sex is a very common occurrence and he is not alone and there can be a number of things that cause it. It is possible that your vagina is not well lubricated, and the roughness of rubbing against your vaginal cavity irritates the skin of penis because of friction. It can also be that both of you may be indulging in very vigorous, rough sex; during and at the end of such a session it can be exhausting and he feels pain. There can also be a problem with the foreskin not retracting, it is suggested that he uses adequate amounts of lubrication and slowly retracts the foreskin during an erection if that is a problem. He should not use too much force and if it is still not happening then consult the urologist.