About Myself I am Symon K.T, 27 years old man.I am an Indian(Keralite).I have papa mamma and one sister she is married and settled in Melbourne(Aus)I am working in s/w field in Auckland(NZ)I am very much a lovable family person. I like children’s, my aunts ,my uncles, my parents, cousins, friends etc. I am little shy for asking this questions but please admit me. I am little shy about (this) asking to my friends because I’m an orthodotic man or I don’t know its my complex. Replying Mode Please reply me only senior citizen lovable couples or doctors(any field) only. One more request please give me a vast reply too. I am posting this letter for revealing my doubts. I am going to marry next year(Jan 2015). She is working as a teacher in a college. She is 23 After fixing, we are talking each other on every Sundays. Let s come to the point. But still now i am some more doubts for better achieving our family life? I think its a common question to all who enter newly married guys. I specify newly married guys because women’s have much more understood about this. Because first step of girl to women(puberty-first period) at that time they have a provision, her mamma and other relative told her about the new stage. I think its a good ajar(custom - in India only) for girls to know about the purity of life. Doubts Regarding My doubt is In our culture, enjoyment (sex -i know its a part of love) I know that how women’s get pregnant and all.I read lot off orientation books and article about that. But still now I’m much fear how to approach my wife. Q1 .How to approach my partner for first intercourse?. Q2. Is any decency on sex enjoyment?. Q3. How to know me if my wife has peak period or safe now)? Q4.On the first time of intercoursing is it safe in home, because lot of peoples there(parents),any sounds occur from my partner s side.I heard if it properely doing, womens have bleeding during first intercoursing, is it spread over the bed and how to manage this?(Please admitted my genuinity) Q5. how many times enjoying sex per month. I know its not a restriction but I don’t know if it like in women’s for every day?. Q6. Is it possible for enjoying every day or its a worst one?. Q7 .Is it done only in night time. Is women’s like day too?. Q8.In Indian culture women’s wear saris and jackets or churidars too during night. Is she remove clothes her own? or i remove her clothes.? Q9. I know that male reproductive organ(penis) entering to female reproductive organ(vagina) for doing sex(intercourse).But during first time how to understand where is the opening. Because in female reproductive system two openings are there urethral opening and vaginal opening? Q10. For enjoying sex, its fully naked both or half naked? Q11. How to understood me she would attain orgasm during intercourse? Q12. Sex position I read about this topic too, experts and clinicians say different styles e.g. missionary style that’s better one.(forward play) Missionary Style, Doggy style etc. Is women’s support those styles and whether she knows this two? Q13. Sex styles      a. Vaginal Sex      b. Oral Sex      c. Anal Sex I know vaginal sex is the perfect way. Is every women’s like all of them and any in decency for others(oral and anal)?. Please clear me? Q14. How to conceive a baby boy or girl. I know its fully gods gift I admitted that(both). For pH balancing what are the douching techniques Alkaline solution and Acidic solution how to make this solution and how to treated(apply)? Q15. What are the precautions taken for birth control in men ? What are the precautions taken for birth control in women.? Is applied any disabilties or cause in future life? Q16. What are the suitable time for enjoying sex without precautions taken for birth control in both men and women? Q17. Give me period calendar for marking .Is it availbale? Thank you                           YYYY@YYYY