Dear Dr.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year now. We both had gotten tested for std's and HIV we both came out clean. When I had went to my primary care doctor I mentioned I always strangely had a dry flaky patch spot on the bottom right side of my penis, she told me that there's nothing to worry about, she then went on saying do you shave around that area i said yeah still worried she told me to keep calm. so I did. I then told my girlfriend what me and the doctor was talking about. Time went on and me and her then engaged in sexual activity considering the fact that there are potentially no risks between us at first for a while we engaged with condoms to be completely safe and sure of ourselves. As months went by within our relationship we stopped using them.She later went on telling me that she is getting some small dry flaky spots on the side of her face no bleeding or any lesions or anything just dry flaky spots she says that when she wakes up it looks bad but no bleeding or anything and it worries me. Time went on and I started to notice small dry spots showing up on the middle and shaft of my penis just like the other spot on the bottom, We did perform a lot of oral on each other but for this to be happening it frightens me. I'm scared that it is spreading cause i noticed a couple of them going up the right side of my shaft. they are really small but very noticeable when it drys up I don't know what to do. ( Thinking back I thought about when I first started getting this dry flaky spot on the bottom of my shaft. I remember my first girl who I lost it to had dry and flaky skin patches on her face similar to the one on me, but when I had asked she said that she had really bad dry skin. now that I have it only on that area of me i wonder why it hasn't spread to the rest of me. its strange and I don't know what it is... I really am scared and would like to know.... I've never had any skin problems before so why now? :(