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Im 29 years old and married for almost 4 years. I am not interested in sex with my husband and the only way that I have been able to have sex recently is if I have been drinking. just so you know, It does not hurt to have sex and I am on a bcp. I dont know what to do.
I had gone through your query and suggest you that it might be because of No interesting intercourse with your partner. I would suggest that spend time with your partner for increasing sex drive. Also would like to suggest you that after drink if you had sex than normally no issue but it could be possible that you may harm you or your partner.
While having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Suggest Treatment For Absence Of Sex Drive
Hello, Thank you for writing to us, I had gone through your query and suggest you that it might be because of No interesting intercourse with your partner. I would suggest that spend time with your partner for increasing sex drive. Also would like to suggest you that after drink if you had sex than normally no issue but it could be possible that you may harm you or your partner. While having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati