My boyfriend Markuses ex-wife Kylie has been diagnosed bipolar. They split up five months ago and she has been really nasty to the both of us since she found out were now dating. This includes threats of violence, namecalling, sending insulting textmessages all the time etc. We understood her pain and let her rage thinking it would soon end. Then she started threatening Markus with suicide. A week ago she took some pills, end up in the hospital and blames it all on Markus. Markus is really broken up, he wants to help her. I understand his worry and pain but I think its not healthy for her to see Markus until she is mentally more stable for all our sakes. She has friends and family. What should we do?