Hello, I m a male and can t ejaculate when having sex. We want a family, and I heard that mastabation doesn t effect it. Since I was 16 I felt turned on wearing pantyhose during mastabation, which is a rough surface, but I reached climax all the time. How do I ejaculate in sex with my wife? Is there a cream I can get to make me cum? Or something? Very personal question, so hard to tell a doctor face to face if you can understand? Hope you can help Kind Regards Annonamous.