Hi,
I can understand your concern for your symptoms,
no need to say sorry as its helpful for better understanding of your situation.
tenderness and pain in the base of the vagina can be due to, 1. Infection - which is very common, can be transmitted from a partner. Make sure your partner is infection free.
infection can also cause dryness in the vagina.
2. Dryness itself can cause pain due to abrasion of the skin. dryness can be due to age factor, improper foreplay, infection,
dehydration hormonal imbalance.
3. Forceful sex can injure your vagina which can lead to pain
4. Use of sex toys may be left a Foreign body, causing pain.
5. Anatomical abnormalities- need a gynecologist review.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. S.R.Raveendran,
Sexologist