my son is 25. he was born with what I call distended elbows on both arms. His elbow actually sticks out to the side on both arms. We took him in when he was three or four and they recommended that we let them grow as is. He is now having pain in the elbows which keep him up at night and also has the tendon I think pop out every once in a while where he says he has to push and work it back in place and loose motion in his arm for about 20 minites. They say the operation to fix it is worse than having it. We need some remedy for this/. any ideas??