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Hello, I am 25 years old and since I was young I noticed that the only thing that gave me a powerful sexual urge was looking at images of women in bondage. this first came across through cartoons and comic books and i became more adept at finding such material on websites when i was in my early teens. i never questioned it because it had been around since childhood, but as I grew older i became very cognizant of the fact that i was not getting off to more conventional fantasies about coitus--as in the bondage stuff just got me powerful erections to which I masturbated, I did not have to imagine myself having any kind of sexual contact with the women in question. as time went on i became more and more focused on this and eventually my rigidity in erections all but disappeared. now i am in a position in which I do not know exactly where to turn. what are my prospects with sex therapy. would that help? is there any way to move from such a narrow type of sexual gratification to a more fulfilling, committed relationship. can i regain the lost sensation and the diminished sexual capacity that has become such a constant worry for me? please just need some guidance and encouragement.
Regaining of lost sensation might be easy if mentally prepared and if you could give time for that more and more.
I had gone through your query and i would like to suggest you that while you go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Regaining of lost sensation might be easy if mentally prepared and if you could give time for that more and more. I had gone through your query and i would like to suggest you that while you go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati