Dear service user, Thank you for writing to healthcare magic. I understand your concerns. As per your description, the most likely reason for lack of erection is anxiety in your case. Early morning erections suggest that your body (physical system) works normally. Cause of erectile dysfunction should be ruled out for proper treatment. Mostly it is due to stress and anxiety. Discuss in detail about your problems with your treating doctor, preferably a psychiatrist. He will counsel you to overcome and cope with anxiety. There are medicines which can significantly improve erectile dysfunction, but they should be taken only under medical supervision as they can be harmful if taken in extra dose than needed. Your SHYNESS of not consulting doctor is a part of this anxiety. Come out of it and go ahead. Wish you good health.