hello doctor , i am a 30 yr old software engineer from bangalore . got married 3 weeks back . my wife , who is also a software engineer is finding it difficult to adjust to married life . the main reason is she was forced to this arranged marriage inspite of preferring to have a love marriage with her ex colleague and she says she ll take more time to get comfortable with me even though she accepts facst and says she knows that this is her life . i have understood the problems and has been giving her enuf time and comfort feeling to look forward for the future life . But as time goes by , even i m getting disappointed due to the lack of positive chnage i expect from her . also , on sex life , she does n't enjoy it or have any urge for it , we are still to have a full intercourse , last time when we tried , she was complaining of pain . but more seriously she is not comfortable with lip to lip kiss and also doe sn't show any reaction to the foreplay and simulation i do . can you please advice me shud i take her to a sexologist, psychatrist or both ?