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Suggest Treatment For Low Libido

Hi, I m recently married. We ve had sex a few times in last 4 months. My wife never seems to come no matter how long I am able to pump. She seems to be more stimulated when I use 2 fingers instead of when doing actual intercourse. How can we fix this? I
Wed, 29 Oct 2014
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Hi,

Stimulation of the clitoris often causes pelvic fullness and body tension to build up to a peak which leads to a better orgasm. Probably this is what is happening with your wife when you insert two fingers and stimulate the clitoris. There are temporary changes in the appearance of the clitoris with sexual excitement. The primary reason is the momentary increase in blood flow to the pelvic organs and this also leads to orgasmic feeling.

It might be that there is not enough contact with the clitoris during regular intercourse and this is not allowing her to experience complete orgasm. For this you can start by having a good foreplay and allow sexual tension to build within her. Just before orgasm you can stop the action with fingers and insert your penis and also use sufficient lubrication.
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Suggest Treatment For Low Libido

Hi, Stimulation of the clitoris often causes pelvic fullness and body tension to build up to a peak which leads to a better orgasm. Probably this is what is happening with your wife when you insert two fingers and stimulate the clitoris. There are temporary changes in the appearance of the clitoris with sexual excitement. The primary reason is the momentary increase in blood flow to the pelvic organs and this also leads to orgasmic feeling. It might be that there is not enough contact with the clitoris during regular intercourse and this is not allowing her to experience complete orgasm. For this you can start by having a good foreplay and allow sexual tension to build within her. Just before orgasm you can stop the action with fingers and insert your penis and also use sufficient lubrication.