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Suggest Treatment For Low Sex Drive

Hi m 27 yr and got married a month back, my wife is 23 yrs she gets aroused during foreplay and in initial days she use to reach orgasm by just kissing and fingering only but whenever we have intercourse she loose all those feeling and don't feel any thing, may be i have a good 10-15mins. thurst in her vagina. please suggest how can she enjoy intercourse, also her breast are very loose and does not react on my touching and kissing.
Fri, 19 Sep 2014
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Hello and thanks for writing in.

I understand that you are facing problems in your sexual relationship with your wife.
You have mentioned that your wife used to get aroused with foreplay and reach an orgasm, but does not get aroused with penetrative sexual intercourse.

Now, there could be different reasons for this. One is that she may be having pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse. Indadequate lubrication can also make intercourse unpleasurable for women. Also, some women prefer clitoral orgasm more than vaginal orgasm.

So, the solution to your problem is to be more communicative and interactive with your partner during sex. You need to explore what stimulates and turns her on and proceed accordingly. Sometimes, a different sex position may be more pleasurable to her and this can be tried. Increase the amount of foreplay and see that the vagina is well lubricated before penetration.

Best wishes.
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Suggest Treatment For Low Sex Drive

Hello and thanks for writing in. I understand that you are facing problems in your sexual relationship with your wife. You have mentioned that your wife used to get aroused with foreplay and reach an orgasm, but does not get aroused with penetrative sexual intercourse. Now, there could be different reasons for this. One is that she may be having pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse. Indadequate lubrication can also make intercourse unpleasurable for women. Also, some women prefer clitoral orgasm more than vaginal orgasm. So, the solution to your problem is to be more communicative and interactive with your partner during sex. You need to explore what stimulates and turns her on and proceed accordingly. Sometimes, a different sex position may be more pleasurable to her and this can be tried. Increase the amount of foreplay and see that the vagina is well lubricated before penetration. Best wishes.