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I am Male 27 years old, I married with the girl of my choice 5 years back and we were in love and still now we love each other very much. I never had sex before marriage.I had the worst wedding Night.
My problem is that I have a about 3.5 inch penis (when it erects)I have NO sexual knowledge whatsoever and same as my wife. I have some questions:
How to satisfy my spouse, I start the sex with foreplay by kissing and fingering and she likes it very much but in having sex I am unable to penetrate her due to small penis size.I want to know that how to satisfy my wife by inserting penis and by making push ups on top on her she dosent feel anything but after few months we got this method that she come on top of me after foreplay and rub her cilitoris with my penis and satisfys herself after that I eneter my penis and satisfys myself so all I wanna know that:
1) Is it possible to satisfy the spouse without touching the cilitoris like my friends made me worried that they said that they satisfy their spouses by only inserting and this thing is making me very worried. Please tell me what is the exact method to have sex. Rubbing cilitoris to satisfy or inserting only to satisfy (Which for me is very difficult)like shown in movies also?
2) Secondly do we have a baby if we follow the same method which I have mentioned above that first she come on top on me and satisfy herself by rubbing the clitoris with my penis and then I satisfy myself by inserting and leave my cemen in her vagina?
Please reply ASAP. More replies will be highly appreciated.
Hello Thanks for query . You are unable to penetrate vagina due to inadequate length (3.5 inches)of your penis on erection in position with your wife in lying down position where as you can penetrate her after sometime when she is on woman on top position This is most likely to be due to inadequate hardness of your penis on erection The length of the penis is erelevant in penetration .It is the hardness of the penis that is important for penetration I think you should spent adequate time in foreplay and see that your penis is hard enough and also her vagina is well lubricated before you attempt to penetrate her .I think you should be able to succeed.and have sex in you on top position .
As regards your doubt about you making her pregnant in woman on top position .I would state that the sex position is not important and pregnancy can result as long as the semen is deposited in vagina irrespective of sex position.
Dr.Patil.
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Hello Thanks for query . You are unable to penetrate vagina due to inadequate length (3.5 inches)of your penis on erection in position with your wife in lying down position where as you can penetrate her after sometime when she is on woman on top position This is most likely to be due to inadequate hardness of your penis on erection The length of the penis is erelevant in penetration .It is the hardness of the penis that is important for penetration I think you should spent adequate time in foreplay and see that your penis is hard enough and also her vagina is well lubricated before you attempt to penetrate her .I think you should be able to succeed.and have sex in you on top position . As regards your doubt about you making her pregnant in woman on top position .I would state that the sex position is not important and pregnancy can result as long as the semen is deposited in vagina irrespective of sex position. Dr.Patil.