Dear service user,
Thank you for writing to healthcaremagic.
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns about penis size, curvature and to delay ejaculation.
The width and length of penis vary greatly from person to person. The normal length of vagina is about six inches. Only outer one third and the front wall of vagina have
nerve fibers and hence sensitive to stimulation. Rest of inner two third is largely insensitive. So, if you want to arouse your partner during sex, you should focus on the areas of maximum nerve endings hence
clitoris, inner lips and lower 2 inches of vagina. So, for female sexual gratification, the size of erect penis could be anything from two inches or more! You remember that what is important is strength and not the length! Entry and to and fro continuous movements are adequate. It is men's technique, not his penis size that characterizes the lover in him. ''Bigger is better'' is Godzilla logic. This logic does not apply here.
Veg and non veg diet has no relationship with hardness of erection.
Following methods, in combination often help to delay the climax.
1. Stop-start technique of behavior therapy.
2. Female on top with active role.
3. Double condom
4. Medicines like
Fluoxetine 20 mg day or
Paroxetine CR 25 mg per day.
(To be taken under medical supervision only)
5. Pelvic muscle strengthening exercise. (As if try to hold urine intermittently during voiding)
6. Penile squeeze technique applied at the point of ejaculatory inevitability.
7. Applying a local
anesthetic ointment to
glans penis prior to penetration.
One can lead the partner to orgasm by stimulating other erogenous zones rather than vaginal containment only. I recommend you to
consult psychiatrist trained in psychosexual medicine, who will guide you how to utilize all these techniques effectively best suited for you.
I hope this will help you.
Wish you good health.