Hello welcome to HCM You are a 36 year old male with 9 years of married life. You have one child of 10 year age. You have two main problems, one is poor erection and other is early ejaculation. Early ejaculation results in significant impairment to sexual life. Treatment of premature ejaculation is available in form of medicines and some non-medicinal methods Non-medicinal treatment- Distract yourself away from her while engaging in sexual intercourse. This will increase the ejaculation time. Kegels exercise is a method which help in premature ejaculation. Contract the pelvic muscles and then count 5 to 1 and then release the tension. This will help in strengthening the pelvic muscles and will help in premature ejaculation. Masters and Johnsons technique is also a proven method for premature ejaculation. In this method just before ejaculation the sexual partner is asked to squeeze the tip of penis and to prevent ejaculation. This result in improvement of ejaculation time. You can take help of a psychiatrist for details. Medicinal treatment- A number of anti-depressant drugs help to delay ejaculation time. SSRIs are one of them. Dapoxetine is the drug that is used in pre-mature ejaculation on SOS basis. For poor erection a number of medicines can be used. Sildenafil, Tadalafil are two medicines of phosphodiesterase inhibitor group. These medicines when taken after proper prescription helps in improving erection. Herbal medicines like Tantex Forte when taken properly over 2-4 weeks help in achieving erection. You can consult a Psychiatrist for expert evaluation and treatment. Hope this helps you. Thanks