Dear service user, Thank you for contacting Healthcaremagic. Hi, I have gone through your question and understand your concerns regarding early discharge during sex with your partner. This happens usually in young age more commonly then later sexual life. When you start sex with a particular partner, the initial arousal level is very high so he reaches orgasm quickly and emission occurs. But, this situation gradually declines over a period of time. Hence, if an you are reaching orgasm/climax early, you likely to experience a little delay in subsequent encounters as you told. When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them a behavior exercise called start-stop technique. The man starts masturbation and stops just prior to orgasmic inevitability. He allows arousal level to decline and re-stimulates. One should continue this start-stop sequence for about 15 minutes. This is how you can gain ejaculatory control gradually. Later on, this technique can be performed with your partner s co operation during coitus. The man lies down on his back allowing woman to masturbate him asking her to stop when he feels orgasmic inevitability. When arousal level declines, ask her to restimulate, repeating same for 15 to 20 minutes. When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them medicines like Paroxetine 20 mg to be taken 4 hours before coitus. It often helps male to delay climax. Hope, I have answered your question properly. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help. Wish you good health.