Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.You should get rid off anxiety and stress including performance anxiety.You can try squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.SSRIs like paroxetine and clomipramine helps in many.Dapoxetine which is a short acting SSRI can be used in need also.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.