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hi my name is nadia. im married for 4 years now before i got married sex with my husband was great we could go at it all night, now he cant last 3 mins of sex and its really disappointing for me, i am horny all the time everyday every minute please can you help
I can understand your distress. Your husband seems to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is bound to cause sexual dissatisfaction in you. However, it is a condition which is amenable to treatment.
You an your husband should seek a psychiatric consultation for treatment of this condition. Treatment with both medications and behaviour therapy will be helpful. Your participation in the behaviour therapy sessions would be highly helpful and enhance the chances of success.
Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behaviour therapy sessions would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction.
I do hope that I was able to help you with your query.
Best wishes,
Dr. Sunil Gupta
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation
Dear Nadia, I can understand your distress. Your husband seems to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is bound to cause sexual dissatisfaction in you. However, it is a condition which is amenable to treatment. You an your husband should seek a psychiatric consultation for treatment of this condition. Treatment with both medications and behaviour therapy will be helpful. Your participation in the behaviour therapy sessions would be highly helpful and enhance the chances of success. Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behaviour therapy sessions would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction. I do hope that I was able to help you with your query. Best wishes, Dr. Sunil Gupta