my father has end stage prostate cancer, he is now at the point where he is paralized and in severe pain. Im not happy with his pain management at the moment and have asked to be referred back to the palliative care team. his doctor says he is doing fine. How do I get around this? The end stage has been going on for approx 2 years now. My gut tells me that with the disease rapidly changing everyday, that his time is nearly up. Do you think I am right.