Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
For controlling your sexual feelings you should have to divert your mind to some other activities which you like most. And involve it in other activities when you have such feeling towards people.
I had gone through your query and would like to advice you that you should try to divert your mind to some activity which you like and avoid sexual activity with others that could be helpful to you.
Other reason could be that as you described that you live alone as divorced so that its natural that when you cant got satisfaction sexually than you will attract towards others. So that you should meet your partner as per your need. that could be helpful.
Also you should have to meet satisfaction while having intercourse with your partner that could even help you. For that i would like to advice you that go for foreplay and
Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati