Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I think you are confusing yourself about all these psychological names of disorders. Unable to engage in conversations in social situations cannot point towards social anxiety. Also inability to get a job is not loosing self worth. You do have lack of motivation. A simple counseling session with a trained psychologist should provide you the required motivation if all other aspects are good., In every case, you should consult a psychologist for a proper diagnosis and cure. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.