In November mother (80 years old) suffered a stroke. She recovered quite well, only a little short term memory problems. About 10 weeks ago she was hospitalized for diverticulitis, 7 weeks ago she was hospitalized for 3 ulcers and cdif, then 4 weeks ago it was a bowel obstruction. I know this has taken a toll on her. She is now staying with me and my husband. She doesn t do anything for herself. I m not sure if she can or if she just likes the attention or a little of both. Another thing, she moans a lot. When you ask her what s wrong she says it just makes her feel better to moan. ??? Can she pull through this or is this her new normal?