Hello Doctor Grief,My father will be 93 in December. He lives alone in VA and I am his daughter, and live in Montana. For the last several months my father has experienced progressively worse urinary incontinence, probably due to prostate problems. He was treated with antibiotics twice, but the incontinence is getting worse. When he gets off the antibiotics the incontinence gets worse. He is unable to sleep at night due to the frequent incontinence and says that during the day it is just as bad. Do you have any suggestions on what to do? Would a transfer mal patch like Oxytocin help suppress the incontinence so he can get some sleep at night? Thanks for any insight on what to do.Is there a urologist available?I will get back to you tomorrow on this.