I am 72 yrs old widow 20 yrs. not sexualy active, had hyso ,vaginaly, 18 yres ago.and a half hearted attempt at bladder tightening..since then my bladder has dropped into my vaigina and it bulges outside of my body , way out complete ball hanging out all the time, and it has reciently become very sore, is there a treatment to be found??