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This is regarding my female friend. From the past 2 year we are studying together. We are close to each other emotionally not phsicaly. I started the friendship with a mind set to marry her, she always knows about that. But she always try to avoid that discussion. As their parents will not permit. Some how I am also making myself to consider that discission. She is not having good friends, who can share her happyness or anything except me. Now the time came, I am about to complete my course. And I have to leave the present place, where she has stay for another 2-3 year. She always says that she is sure, not to marry me. But I dont know what is going on her mind. Now the situation is like, she is not able to control crying, whenever I am not there. This depression might have started from june, 2010. Please suggest me how to cure her.
Thanks
This is regarding my female friend. From the past 2 year we are studying together. We are close to each other emotionally not phsicaly. I started the friendship with a mind set to marry her, she always knows about that. But she always try to avoid that discussion. As their parents will not permit. Some how I am also making myself to consider that discission. She is not having good friends, who can share her happyness or anything except me. Now the time came, I am about to complete my course. And I have to leave the present place, where she has stay for another 2-3 year. She always says that she is sure, not to marry me. But I dont know what is going on her mind. Now the situation is like, she is not able to control crying, whenever I am not there. This depression might have started from june, 2010. Please suggest me how to cure her.
Thanks
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. You were friends emotionally not physically. You say she knows you wanted to marry her, but always ignores or tries to avoid any discussion about that. In that sense, you, in now way know for sure that she is somehow ready to marry you and for some reasons ignoring you and being depressed about this fact. I sincerely suggest you to know more of her details. If need be consult a psychological counselor for one or two sessions of counseling. You should know for sure.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. You were friends emotionally not physically. You say she knows you wanted to marry her, but always ignores or tries to avoid any discussion about that. In that sense, you, in now way know for sure that she is somehow ready to marry you and for some reasons ignoring you and being depressed about this fact. I sincerely suggest you to know more of her details. If need be consult a psychological counselor for one or two sessions of counseling. You should know for sure.
If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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