Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you are quite worried about your husband s sexual problem. From the description of your symptoms, it appears that you may be suffering from premature ejaculation. Now, the first and most important step in management of this problem is proper evaluation. This will include a detailed medical, sexual, personal and social history, a thorough physical examination and certain investigations, as per the necessity. Only if the cause is identified correctly, appropriate treatment can be given. I suggest that you ask him to see a Sexologist for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. It is also important to be realistic in your expectations. Many fantasies may not be practically applicable. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist