Hello! I'm writing from Finland! I am desperately trying to get my mind at ease... I had sex in January, it was protected, 2nd time I've ever had sex before.. Then, I got my period, then the period after that..etc.etc. My last period was a week ago, just on time, with cramping and all the usual PMS.. Yet still I cannot make myself believe that I am NOT pregnant.. I have taken two pregnancy tests (around my "supposed" weeks 14) and both were negative. No changes in my body either. Please, I need assurance from someone who knows. I've heard too many stories about women who didn't know..