Hi, I Am 26 year old girl, recently married. We are not planning for a baby anytime now coz of career reasons. Initially my hubby used condoms. But now he insists doing without it and promises to pull out before he gets semen. I am concerned and as I concentrate on whether be will pull out in time I am not able to enjoy sex. After sex my vagina is all sticky with my secretions and his precum. How can I be sure no semen leaked in.. What is the right way to have sex by pulling out. After pulling out he ejaculates on my thigh or stomach and we clean up
Fri, 13 Jan 2012
General & Family Physician, Dr. P. Mahesh's Response
Hi,
Withdrawing just before ejaculation (Coitus interruptus) works well if the partner is good at it, but you cannot be 100 % sure. If you want to have condom free intercourse, best alternative for nulliparous person (who has no children ) is Oral Contraceptive pills and for multigravida (who has children) Copper T can be used. Safe period (1 week before and 1 week after) is not that safe.
The chances of failure with coitus interruptus are high, and I would not recommend this method if you are not planning for a baby. There is no such thing as a correct "method". You have to basically withdraw before he gets the urge to ejaculate. The problem is that there may be live sperms in the tubes from a previous attempt at sex, and these may be injected into you before the final ejaculate.
Hi, Welcome to HealthcareMagic Forum.
If you are not Planning for Kids, it is absolutely unsafe method. Insist him on using a condom always. Even if he tries for withdrawal on time, the semen may leak out and Precum also contains sperms.
You can also practice safe period method where in you have sex starting from 5th to 10th day and between 20th day of your Period to next period, because this is the safest period and there wont be any chances of conceiving.
Good Luck.
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Hi, Withdrawing just before ejaculation (Coitus interruptus) works well if the partner is good at it, but you cannot be 100 % sure. If you want to have condom free intercourse, best alternative for nulliparous person (who has no children ) is Oral Contraceptive pills and for multigravida (who has children) Copper T can be used. Safe period (1 week before and 1 week after) is not that safe.