Hello
After going through your query ,read this carefully , you will get answer:
When you were rubbing your penis with her vagina ,there were secretions ( as you mentioned wet vagina).
The HIV ( VIRUS ) has been demonstrated in CERVICAL SMEARS & also in VAGINAL FLUID .
In your case there were cervical fluid with vaginal secretion and your unprotected penis were grinding these ( this ) secretions continuously as stated by you.
If that girl was an HIV infected then there is a chance of getting infection by you is much more.
Now note down the symptoms of HIV infection :
Approximately 50-70 % of infected individuals experience an acute syndrome following primary infection. The acute syndrome follows infection by 2-6 weeks .These are ;fever,
pharyngitis (
sore throat), headache /retro-orbital pain ,
lymphadenopathy, arthralgias/myalgias, lethargy/malaise,
anorexia /
weight loss, nausea/vomitin/
diarrhea.
Erythematous maculopapular rashes, mucocutaneous ulceration ( in mouth and on tongue).
Since you are having most of these symptoms , so you are in a risk zone.
Antibodies to HIV begin to appear within 2 weeks of infection , and the period of time between initial infection and development of detectable antibodies is rarely more than 3 months.
So I recommend you get in p24 ( pcr rna ) nucleic acid amplification test as early as possible and sort out this problem.
Good luck.