Hi Doctor, I am in love with a guy who belongs to Bhumiar community of Bihar and he is Brahmin.Even I am a Brahmin girl but my ancestors are from Nepal.We want to marry but the guys parents are not listening to him.They are forcing him to marry a girl from their community.Even if his father is educated well,he doesn t belive in inter caste marriages.His parents are giving him lots of mental presuure to see girls and choose one .They want to marry him as soon as possible.his sister also did a love marriage but with in the same caste.And the family sufferred a lot of humiliation from the groom s side on the day of marriage.This is also one of the reason his father dont want to take a risk again.My happiness is with him and I cant see life without him.Its been 3 years I am with him.I dont know what to do now.I feel the guy might agree to his parents wish and marry someone else.But I want to fight.I am not able to sleep since one year ,going through lots of mental tention and hair loss.Even I want to speak to his parents.But the guy is not allowing me to do so saying that his father cant take it and might harm his mother.This is a very serious situation buit i cant give up.So please help me..