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What Can We Do During Foreplay To Excite Each Other?
We are married close to a year. However, my wife and I have lost much of sex interest. We fail to understand new ways of foreplay. Can you help us with what all apart from the common ones we can do during foreplay to excite each other? (from him and from her)
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Adequate kissing is essential of course. From.various books written on intimate contact 'sucking' has proven to be very effective. Find spots on her/his body which are more sensitive than the others. Concentrate on gentle caressing, kissing, sucking or licking those spots.
Oral sex is also considered effectuve to help increase arousal before penetrative intercourse but it is to be used only as a tool to increase arousal and to be used in moderation in order not to attain climax by it or reduce the need for penetrative intercourse.
There are various spots on his and her body you can concentrate on, but as I said it is a huge topic.
Hope to hear from you.
Best wishes.
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What Can We Do During Foreplay To Excite Each Other?
Hello sir and welcome. This is a huge topic and we can only scrape through things on the public forum, I would request you to write to me using our premium service. Adequate kissing is essential of course. From.various books written on intimate contact sucking has proven to be very effective. Find spots on her/his body which are more sensitive than the others. Concentrate on gentle caressing, kissing, sucking or licking those spots. Oral sex is also considered effectuve to help increase arousal before penetrative intercourse but it is to be used only as a tool to increase arousal and to be used in moderation in order not to attain climax by it or reduce the need for penetrative intercourse. There are various spots on his and her body you can concentrate on, but as I said it is a huge topic. Hope to hear from you. Best wishes.