Respected Science girl Hi I evaluated your query thoroughly . * Till your narration it is most probably peri-anal abscess likely, though require confirmation by physical examination . * Need surgical evaluation as soon as possible till that time you can - manage to have soft stools with high fiber diet, plenty of liquids as hard stools will increase the agony - Sitz bath ( sitting in a tub filled with lukewarm water for 10-10 minutes morning , evening & specially after passing stools ) help a lot - avoid sitting on hard surface for prolong period of times - Local application of Xylocaine (5%) jelly give soothing action - refrain from any anal sex activities ( if involved ) - avoid smoking / alcohol if consuming - Systemic antibiotics & anti-inflammatory agents fasten the recovery as prescribed after in person evaluations - avoid oily / spicy / non vegetarian stuffs - take analgesic tablets 3 times a day after meals for pain control Hope this helps you . Welcome for any further assistance . Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.com & giving me an opportunity to assist Wishing you fine recovery from the same. Regards dear take care.