** 1. pain in abdomen could be some sort of ailment that is brought on by the physical aspect of sex, or consult an urologist for detailed examination [structural] and investigations [semen examination] 2. Divert the mind to non-sexual activities like sports or business matters. 3. In my Clinical Practice I usually treat the patient on line of : Shukragat Vata which is characterized by a group of clinical presentations either with the impairment of ejaculation or with seminal abnormalities. i. The line of treatment should be based on vrishya , medhya , shukrastambhaka , and vatahara properties. You may Consult a good Ayurveda Physician in and around your place. PS. Tentex forte tablets [Himalaya]: 2 tablets twice daily for 3-4 weeks. treatment may be prolonged depending upon the response. PS. is a non hormonal and safe sexual stimulant and acts on higher brain centers to improve libido, the antis tress, adaptogen action of tentex forte helps alleviate anxiety associated with sexual desire.