Hi,
I can understand your concern for your symptoms,
the usual reason for painful coitus is dryness since you already tried using lube (hope you tried water-based gel _ KY gel) we can skip that issue and discuss other issues .
1. Infection in the vagina can also cause painful sex and some times bleeding too. make sure you are not suffering from
Pelvic Inflammatory disease PID you can do a routine
ultrasound for diagnosing
2. Forceful sex can injure the internal structure and you can face pain every time you have sex
3. Benign or malignant polyp. can be a reason need gynaecologist examination
4. Foreign bodies can be a reason, due to the unhygienic method of sex and use of sex toys
5. Anatomical abnormalities
6.
vaginismus - anxiety during sex can cause vaginismus which leads to
muscle contraction and painful sex
7. Eczema - skin disease causing painful sex
8. Deep penetration during sex can cause but you have already ruled out that issue
9. History of surgery.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. S.R.Raveendran,
Sexologist