Hello ma am and welcome. I completely understand how you feel, I would have preferred learning more about your other details like weight, height, menstrual cycle duration, regularity, history of medical conditions, etc. If you are comfortable, then please write to me with the same information using our premium service. But at the moment, the blame cannot be shifted over to you. Without adequate evaluation of both you and your partners health, we cannot really tell who is to blame at the moment. Either way, this is no blame game and you both may require some medical attention. Getting your sexual hormones, ultrasound of the abdomen and pelvis, semen analysis (for your partner), thyroid profile, etc; are all information I will need to guide you further. You could visit a doctor in the region who should also be able to help. Best wishes.