Hello,
You are having difficulty in penetrating the vibrator into the vagina. Presently, you are swollen and have pain and bruising. You should opt for silicone vibrators over any other material so that you do not hurt yourself. You should always clean it regularly after each use. Clean it with soap, water and anti bacterial soap to avoid getting infected with it. Be gentle with yourself. Improper use of vibrators may cause abrasions, cuts, inflammation, soreness, pain and discomfort.
Vibrators may cause
numbness too.
Clitoris is very sensitive be careful, overstimulation may cause numbness and if
nerve endings get damaged, they'll take time to get healed. Use vaginal lubricants before using vaginal vibrators. It will help easier penetration. At first, it may be uncomfortable but you will feel better as the muscles relax around the vaginal canal. Insert the vibrator shaft only as deeply as is comfortable for you.
Do not insert entire dilator. It is a good practice to pee after using the vibrator. Avoid the use of vibrators for a couple of days, let the soreness subside and bruises heal. You can apply ointment
Soframycin or ointment
Neosporin on the area affected. You can take
acetaminophen, one SOS when needed to help reduce inflammation, pain & soreness.
Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Nupur K., General & Family Physician