hi, i'm 22 and 7 months married. i never had sex before marriage even though i used to masturbate. i got married and my husband and I couldnt get to penetration. he tried and it gets to a point but that's it(and it hurts, of course). He did insert the finger (1 is ok -- 2 only a few times). I mean we are very close and talk about it and stuff and we do enjoy other stuff, but what should we do. I'm trying now kegel exercises and it did get the head inside a bit but that's it. thank you for your time and really looking forward for an answer as i want to be completly one with my husband.