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What Causes Disfigurement Of Vaginal Lips And Clitoris After A Rough Sex?

Hi, i m in a BDSM relationship, my partner is a sadist and i m a masochist, i moved in with him and to his town over six months ago, i need to find a local GP but i m worried that when and if the GP sees my marks and bruises (we are into extreme play, my vaginal lips, clitoris are permanently disfigured, have temporary branding on arse, pubic mound and breasts) they will be concerned and want to report it to the authorities. I have been wondering if i should get 2 GP s, one for the more normal and child (have a 9yo dsaughter) problems and another for the times i may have to strip off as in when i have to get my next pap smear. How do i find a GP who is very open minded, i cant imagine just walking in, sitting down, saying hi! I m a consensual slave!!!!! Please help                                                                  
Fri, 19 Dec 2014
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Hello ma'am and welcome.

I do understand that this would be difficult and people may not understand your chosen life style. But unfortunately the only way to find a GP who would understand is by looking, discussing and meeting one.

It may be difficult as you have some permanent changes, but the only way would be to find someone who understands and is comfortable.

May be your approach, speak to the GP and gain his/her trust. Make sure you tell and show them that you are perfectly happy and are not in an abusive (non-consensual) relationship. Once this has been established, you can tell him/her about yofur choice of sexual lifestyle. There is sadly no other way to do this.

If it is something small not requiring physical presence, you can always write to me using ouf premium service. We have an option to even attach pictures to our discussion, so if at all I can be of help, it would be my pleasure.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes.
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What Causes Disfigurement Of Vaginal Lips And Clitoris After A Rough Sex?

Hello ma am and welcome. I do understand that this would be difficult and people may not understand your chosen life style. But unfortunately the only way to find a GP who would understand is by looking, discussing and meeting one. It may be difficult as you have some permanent changes, but the only way would be to find someone who understands and is comfortable. May be your approach, speak to the GP and gain his/her trust. Make sure you tell and show them that you are perfectly happy and are not in an abusive (non-consensual) relationship. Once this has been established, you can tell him/her about yofur choice of sexual lifestyle. There is sadly no other way to do this. If it is something small not requiring physical presence, you can always write to me using ouf premium service. We have an option to even attach pictures to our discussion, so if at all I can be of help, it would be my pleasure. Hope this helps. Best wishes.