hello mam, thnx fr trusting health care magic doctors fr ur health related queries... i guess ur concern is- pain w.r.t intercourse n tender breasts lets discuss it.. 1.pain during intercourse... usually wen virgins have sex fr first time or even wen couples have sex after sufficient time of gap...this kind of pain experience is common...its normal..so chill,relax..nothing to worry.. reazn being tat vaginal structures may not be relaxed much,,so very painful thing expected. usually gets settled down with time... if it persists fr quite a long period then then there is something fishy... then my straight forward anzr:mam,plz visit ur nearby gynecologist asap.. sometimes pain w.r.t intercourse,,is bcz if infection of female private parts..treatable ..so relax well,dont worry every problem has a solution..so relax.. 2.tender breast. during or near to menses its quite natural to hav heavy n tender breast.it settles down with time. in the absence of menses if u hav tenderness then it has to b examined. with tis small discussion u can try out my suggestions: 1.have patience things will settle down slowly..take out ur tension,,njoy the process.. 2.u can use 2% lignocaine jelly 4-5min before having intercourse..juz 2-3 drops...its aviable at ur nearby medical stores at affordbl prices...though ur vaginal structures r not relaxed,it slips in male private part slowly without any damage to vaginal structures.. tis give temporary relief,,unless the exact cause has not been found out.. 3.if problem persist fr a quite a long period or if problem exaggerates..whichever is earlier..i suggest u to visit a nearby gynecologist fr further help.. y am i suggesting gynecologist is that they hav a sound knowledge about female anatomy and its normal n abnormal body functions..so they can give precise opinion n treatment... i hope tis was informative enough,helpful n useful fr ur query.. regards:dr.sudha rani panagar... get well soon..