hello - I have a 5 1/2 year old girl. I adopted her 2 1/2 years ago. she throws fits like you wouldn t believe. they have gotten shorter in length of how long they last, but the older she get the more violent she gets. she does things she knows she is not supposed to do. example: this morning, the daycare teacher told her to sit in the chair and not stand. she said NO - got down and starting throwing chairs. I know that with me - she doesn t get like this. she knows the teachers are the boss, but doesn t seem to care. I describe this like a 15 year old who has the attitude of I will do what I want, and I don t care but she is 5 and getting ready to start kindergarden in the fall. the daycare is frustrated with her, I am frustrated because I know that she knows better and she doesn t have that significant of outbursts with me. any advice?